Wants and not-wants

I was reading Semi-desperate Housewife's Fuck It List, and it got me thinking about things I don't care about, but also about things I do care about. Because there are a lot of things that I want, and thinking about what I don't want only reminds me of what I do want. So, here's my bucket/fuck-it list, except that they aren't all things I do or don't want to do before I die.

Want: A beautiful, well-designed, nicely landscaped yard. With a water feature. And fruit trees.
Don't want: To do the work myself. I just don't see myself ever getting into gardening. I kill everything that grows under my care. Including cacti. The only plant that I've ever managed to keep alive for any extended period of time is an orchid that I left behind in my sister's care when we moved to Colorado.

Want: Kids. Two of them, I think. Preferably first a boy and then a girl, but I can be flexible on this.
Don't want: Twins (or triplets, etc.). Dear god, please save me from multiples. I do not have the stress management skills to cope. (And, if I do have twins, please don't let them read this. Or, if they do, please don't let them take it personally.)

Want: To travel. A lot. To everywhere. I want to go to South Africa, and maybe on a safari. I want to go nearly everywhere in Asia, especially Japan and Thailand. I want to go on a cruise to Antarctica. I want to go to Australia and New Zealand. I want to go to Brazil and Argentina and Panama. I want to visit more of Europe. I want to go EVERYWHERE.
Don't want: To have to fly to get there. I am so over flying. It's expensive, frustrating, stressful, and uncomfortable. Ugh. Perhaps I shouldn't have moved outside of driving distance of nearly everyone I care about, huh?

Want: A hot tub. So comfortable. So relaxing. So romantic. The Colorado climate is perfect for a hot tub. Our yard even already has a hot tub foundation built in. This WILL happen.
Don't want: A swimming pool. I had one growing up, and while it was definitely fun, I don't miss it. It was a lot of work, and expensive, and also (obviously) dominated the back yard. I'll stick with the lap pool and water aerobics classes at the gym.

Want: To continue in my current job for a long time. I love the work that I do and the people that I work with, and I love working from home
Don't want: To have to get up early to start working. I want to sleep late. And by late I mean "until nine," which would have the college-age me cringing in horror, as I regularly skipped my 9 a.m. classes because they were just so early. And was lucky if I dragged myself out of bed before noon. Ah, how times have changed.

Want: The house to be all pretty and unpacked and nicely arranged. With lovely furniture.
Don't want: To make the house all pretty, do the unpacking, and arrange everything. Or pay for the furniture.

Want: To try new things that interest me, like snowshoeing and exotic cooking and, I don't know, raising children.
Don't want: To try new things for the sake of trying them, like skydiving or climbing Mt. Everest. I mean, not that I could do the latter, but I don't lament that fact at all.

Want: To be able to accessorize without feeling like an idiot.
Don't want: To learn how to walk in killer heels. I'm fine in my flats and kitten heels and low wedges, thanks.

What about you? What do you want or not want?