Thursday, March 11, 2010

What should I wear to my sister's wedding?

So, as I may have already mentioned, my sister is getting married in DC next week. This is the second wedding for both her and her fiance, and it will not be a big, traditional affair. Only immediate family (parents, siblings, and children) will be there, and there is no bridal party or anything like that. There will be no big white dress. In fact, my sister is wearing a knee-length purple dress. (She likes purple as much as I do.)

Her dress is fancy, though, fancier than anything I own, so she will definitely stand out. So it's not like I have to stay away from purple because that's the bride's color. In fact, as far as we're both concerned, the more purple the better.

Of course, my options are limited, since the vast majority of my formal dresses are way too big by now. In fact, I have only three options, which certainly makes picking a dress easier. Luckily, two of them are purple.

Anyway! Let's look at the three dresses, shall we? I'm leaning strongly toward one of them, but I definitely want to hear opinions from others.

Dress A (some longtime readers may remember that I wore this dress to my rehearsal dinner--which was on Halloween, in case it isn't obvious from the photo--when I was significantly heavier, but apparently it's very flexible with its sizing, because it still fits):


Dress B:


Dress C:


So what do you think? Which one should I wear?

93 comments:

Alison said...

Correction: I like purple more than you :-)

I like Dress A the best for this occasion.

Sorry I didn't send you a picture of the dress I'll be wearing...

Syl (previously known as Shib) said...

I know you love purple but I feel that dress B is really figure flattering on you. The top and bottom of the dress are giving you a beautiful hourglass figure.

Second choice would be dress C, which again is giving you a lovely figure.

I think maybe becuase Dress A is a larger size, it's not framing your body that well.

and I watch way too much What Not to Wear.

Tess said...

Oh, C!! Fancy, and classy, and just lovely. You look great.

Mandy said...

First of all, you look GREAT!

Secondly, I adore dress C on you.

Shelly said...

I like C best. It's purple (yay!), and it fits nicely. It's also very classy and sophisticated, which sounds like it would suit the occasion.

pseudostoops said...

A! I know you've already worn it, but I DO NOT CARE. It's BEAUTIFUL.

Amy said...

I love C the best!

poodlegoose said...

I LOVE C. It looks great on you :)

Nilsa @ SoMi Speaks said...

I like the shape to dress B - it is very figure flattering. But, while I actually really like the pattern, it's busy and a little distracting to the eye (I'm thinking about wedding photos here and where the eye is drawn). I also really like the dress you wore for your rehearsal dinner, so I'm going with Dress A for this vote!

Anonymous said...

My vote is dress C!

Jersey said...

I like the top of C and the skirt of B... so can you do some quick sewing and make that happen? You may also need some fabric dye.. lol.

Honestly? Whichever one you are most comfortable in, because they are all beautiful!

edwina said...

ooh C definitely! very flattering on your shape

Jess said...

Long time lurker! I vote dress C it looks amazing on you and totally appropriate for the occasion!

Rachel said...

C. You look awesome!

Christiana said...

I think I like Dress C the best too! You look wonderful Jess!

Lexilooo said...

I love dress c!

Anonymous said...

You are looking fit & fabulous!

I vote C!

Jody said...

Definitely dress C. This dress shows your waist off really well.

Penny said...

They all look good, but I vote A or B. Look at those skinny little calves down there! You look fantastic.

Danielle said...

Definitely C. I love it! Purple is my favorite color also.

DCMomma said...

I say dress C. It is really gorgeous, and you look great in it! Have fun!

Emily said...

I love the shape of C on you, so that's my choice, followed by B. I also like that C appears to be a little bit plum, so I'm thinking your sister's dress won't match exactly, and you'll have a nice variation for photos.

Bluebelle said...

I think dress B has a lovely shape to it, but also dress C is a gorgeous colour. They're my favourites!

Emblita said...

Oh C! It is so flattering for your figure!

Heather said...

C! It elongates your torso and slims your waist while at the same time being dressy enough for a wedding.

claire said...

Definitely C! That one is really flattering! In fact.. where'd you get that? I could use a new dress, too. :)

CAQuincy said...

I am also voting for C! You look good in all of the dresses, but I think you look the best in C.

Luck o' the Irish said...

B! B! B! I love the shape of B on you. Also, what shoes would you wear with each dress? That will help complete the picture. But still... B!!!!!

Mon

kakaty said...

Love C - great cut, shape and color. B is my 2nd choice, love the silhouette that one gives. But go with C.

Rebecca @ Diary of a Virgin Novelist said...

I like them all - which is unusual for me - so you can't really go wrong. I think I am leaning towards Dress C because is it a great color and an interesting cut. The structure of it is really fun. Add some heels and away you go!

Swistle said...

Jeez, this is a hard choice, they're ALL so great! I like the two purple ones best. The first one I like how it ties into your own wedding (I had a casual wedding dress for my own wedding, and in fact it was green with flowers, and I loved wearing it to other people's weddings). The second one I like a little better overall, but for a reason I can't put a finger on.

OMG have you guys seen all the PURPLE STUFF in stores?? I saw purple measuring cups/spoons at Target, a really good strong purple. And Home Goods has had a ton of purple stuff too.

Fiona Picklebottom said...

Go with C. It looks great on you! So do the others, but C looks the best in my opinion.

k. said...

C! Very classy.

Have fun at the wedding!

crystall said...

i don't think you need a 34th person telling you but C looks stunning!

Pickles and Dimes said...

I really love the way Dress B looks on you. Very flattering and very classic.

playintherain said...

I think they all look great - and I know how much you love purple, but I think Dress B looks amazing on you!

Alicia said...

C! C! I think it creates a really flattering waist.

Holly said...

C is so cute! Well actually they all are, and look nice, but I think C is just a 10! Looks great and what a fun color!

Alice said...

ha, looks like the comment section is going to be too split to offer you much help.. :-) my vote is for C, whatever that's worth!

Mary said...

You look great!

I vote C! Love it!

Second choice B, third A, but you look wonderful in all! :)

Jummy said...

To me, C is the most flattering and I just love the cut/style of it!

bessie.viola said...

I'm going with A as well, though I LOVE the fit of B - you look FABULOUS. And I love purple on you.

Alison said...

okay, John likes Dress C the best, so I guess I will concede this battle...

missris said...

Dress C! It's very flattering and a bit more structured than A or B.

Hillary said...

I vote C.

Jenn said...

total lurker here, but C looks great on you!

Mimi said...

They are all very pretty, but C is extra special.

Nose in a book said...

I like A the best. It looks pretty, comfortable, flattering and I bet that skirt looks great when you dance or run down stairs!

Christine said...

I like Dress B the best followed by Dress C. But really? They all look nice on you.

Kristen said...

I like C. The color and style really looks good on you.

sarah said...

if you really want purple, go with C.

My vote is for B though, what an awesome dress

Stacy said...

I think B fits the best, but C is a close second. And since it's purple, I vote C.

alyndabear said...

I vote C.
And also, I kind of want C.

:D

artemisia said...

You look GREAT, Jess!

I know you love purple, but I think Dress B is very, very flattering and so pretty!

Julie said...

Dress C, definitely dress C. It looks very nice on you and is super flattering!

Elizabeth said...

I LOVE LOVE LOVE dress C. Fabulous!

Maggie said...

I think you look AWESOME in dress C. Like the others, but you are ROCKING dress C.

Stephanie said...

I vote 'C'!

LoriD said...

Another vote for C. You're looking terrific!

sassafras said...

I think all the dresses look fantastic but my favorite is C.

lizgwiz said...

C looks amazing!

Erica said...

Both B and C are much more flattering on you than the too big A. And I personally love you in purple, so I wholeheartedly vote for C!

Jennie said...

Definitely C!! Beautiful!

Anonymous said...

Hands down dress B!! It photographs really well and looks fantastic on you!!!

each of the two said...

im going with Dress A, but as a second? C.

Ashalah said...

Ohhhh so I love Dress C, the color is fabulous and you look fabulous in it. However, I also love Dress A and you can just tell you love that dress! Either way you go, you're going to look stunning!

It was so nice FINALLY meeting you last night!!

Jackie said...

C for sure. You've already worn A - and B could be dressed up/dressed down enough that you could wear it a lot. C is dressier (& therefore, you might not get as many wears out of it).

nancypearlwannabe said...

Dress C!

el-e-e said...

Oh, wow. I think C is the most flattering, and B is just so pretty. Very hard to decide! I think I would go with C for this occassion, though. :)

SheLikesToTravel said...

I like them all... But LOVE 'C'. That's my choice.

Amy B. said...

Handsdown, no question it's C by a mile. Followed by B.

Marie Green said...

71 comments already! Guess I'm late, late, late to the party. I love them all, really, I do. If I had to pick I'd say I like the first one best. But I can't say why, probably because they are all lovely.

Marie Green said...

71 comments already! Guess I'm late, late, late to the party. I love them all, really, I do. If I had to pick I'd say I like the first one best. But I can't say why, probably because they are all lovely.

Steph the WonderWorrier said...

I really like C on you! Love the top, and it's flattering to your figure!

B is my next favourite. Then A.

Mama Bub said...

I like C!

Stevie said...

I'm going to go with B or C. I love A, too, but it seems like more of a summery dress.

And I have a dress almost identical to C, except it has little cap sleeves! I love that color. But I really like the print on B.

Miss Adventurous said...

Dress C!!

Your body gets completely lost in dress A and dress C is a great color and hits you at the exact right spot in the waist.

You look great!!

Miss Adventurous said...

Dress C!!

Your body gets completely lost in dress A and dress C is a great color and hits you at the exact right spot in the waist.

You look great!!

ccr in MA said...

If it's up to me, I choose C, but I think you should wear the one that makes you feel the best. So much is in our heads!

SLynnRo said...

C!

That shape is PERFECT for you.

EZ and RJ said...

Dress C!!!

d e v a n said...

C C C C CCCCCC!

Bayjb said...

Dress A or B, I love the pattern on B!

Sally said...

A! In both of those pictures it makes your legs look AMAZING. For real. Shorter dresses on you are LOVELY.

Melly said...

Another strong vote for Dress C!

bustysatan said...

I'd like to put in my vote for C.

eleanorstrousers said...

C!!!!

amber said...

I like C the best. It's beautiful and structured, and it looks terrific on you. Plus I love how the color is more plummy than simply purple.

Kate said...

A! B is too busy, C is too work-ish

lfar said...

Dress A is gorgeous and looks super hot on you!

Kath said...

Are you tired of hearing C??

Hope not!

They are all gorgeous, but C is my fave!

You look amazing, Jess :-) xoxo

Mel said...

C... its a great cut for you.

justme said...

C is the best. it's figure flattering, AND purple. you can't go wrong